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Hey y'all.
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Mama Liberty here.
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This episode of the podcast is going to be a little doozy.
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We're going to go from barn chores to delivery room Saddle up.
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Let me tell you something Everybody struggles.
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The difference is some people choose to go through it and some choose to grow through it.
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The choice is completely yours.
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Which one you choose will have a very profound effect on the way you live your life.
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If you find strength in the struggle, then this podcast is for you.
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Do you have a relationship that is comfortable with uncomfortable conversations?
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Uncomfortable conversations challenge you, humble you and they build you.
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When you sprinkle a little time and distance on it, it all makes sense.
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Most disagreements they stem from our own insecurities.
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You are right where you need to be Back on time reading your bad words.
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The whole day gone running behind, ooh ooh, ooh ooh.
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What it do, what it did-a-dee-dee-dee-dee-do, hot diggity.
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Damn, am I so excited to be back with you.
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Oh, it's true, it's damn true.
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And today's episode of the podcast isn't just two.
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Two and a quarter, you think.
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Two and an eighth.
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What do you think?
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Two and a half pint.
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Yeah, that sounds about right.
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Because today just happens to be the first episode of the podcast to include.
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Paisley Raine.
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Mm-hmm man Well.
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I mean live in the flesh.
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Yeah, I mean she's been along the ride for the past.
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You know eight and a half months of episodes that she's, you know, decided, that you decided to join us on.
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But yeah.
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So from here on out, it's not going to be just Folsom and Presley walking around with shuffling their toes.
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There may be a baby cry here, and there might be some crying in there because I'm way too lazy to edit it all out, so it's going to be in there, I think, before we get rocking and rolling, I think it's important to say or to point out, because it's something that I think about with the podcast is there's many times where we just don't have the energy to record right, like you just don't want to do it and I'm going to say right now that we're recording on a Tuesday.
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This show has to be in tonight because it's going to drop in the morning for a winning Wednesday and it's going to drop in the morning for a winning Wednesday and it's currently 10.46 pm.
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It's almost 11 o'clock and we got to try to get this show put together and edited and music put in and typed up and posted.
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But for us there's a few things that go into it.
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Number one this is episode 217.
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We want to keep that streak active because it's important to us.
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And number two I think it's fitting that the podcast episodes, but when we record them they happen to fall on monumental moments in our life all the time.
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Yeah, all the time.
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You're right, actually.
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It's crazy how this works We've had.
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Some of our most depressing, difficult episodes are on the day that we found out we lost somebody.
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They're recorded when we found out.
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We get the news, or they're recorded when we come back from a service.
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We've had some really depressing episodes.
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Wow.
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I think it's like a I don't know the best word I'm searching for here, but it's so fulfilling to have an episode of the podcast that takes place on a day that's an absolute blessing, where it's a day that's changed our life, because today is the actual day that we brought Miss Paisley Rain home.
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Yep, she joined the family a couple days ago and she joined the household today.
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Welcome to the herd.
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Tonight we have the dogs walled off over there.
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They're in.
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What do you call that isolation over there?
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I guess for right now we're just all adapting.
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It's a lot we're over here in general population, we're in gen pop and they're over there and, uh, like the cell, the holding cell.
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They're in like quarantine if you watch enough prison shows or you have family members in prison.
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I guess technically the baby would be in the holding cell.
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I mean we're in here with her, so I don't know, maybe she hasn't been welcomed to Gen Pop yet.
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I guess, she's in isolation.
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She certainly hasn't been let loose on the yard, that's for sure.
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Man, I don't know how to really rock and roll this episode today.
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We're both running on very little sleep and a lot of chaos.
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What I'm going to do is just kind of connect episode 217 to 216 real quick and then you're going to take this sucker over.
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So last week when we recorded the podcast, it was actually opening day for the Windsor Fair and, if you guys recall, I was really excited, I was enthused, I was ready to rock and roll.
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We had a new location for the fair, the weather was looking great for the fair and you were up to drop the truck off.
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We were making a contingency plan To drop the truck off.
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We were making a contingency plan.
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Thankfully, we did not want to use Plan B, but we thankfully constructed Plan B Because, as you're going to find out today, we used that Plan B.
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We didn't use Plan B because we wouldn't be sitting here with Paisley.
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Technically, that's the truth.
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So I got to name it something different.
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We used the second plan.
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Yeah yeah, we just the backup plan.
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We used the second plan.
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Yeah, yeah, we just.
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The backup plan we had to call an audible.
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We had to call an audible.
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Okay, let's just put it that way.
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So when we were having last week's podcast, we were talking about how excited we are that the season was about to get rock and rolling or the fair, I should say, was about to get rock and rolling, which we feel like, as I've talked to you guys before, there's about 20 or so days to save our year when it comes to the business, and Windsor was about to be like half of those.
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So we were encouraged, we were excited, but I was nervous.
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You had come off of a doctor's appointment that said you were two centimeters dilated and that things were getting a little bit closer.
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Getting a little bit closer, and part of the audible that we had called was for you to go to the doctors on Friday for them to give you some results and decide whether it was safe for you to come to the fair or not.
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So let's talk about that appointment a little bit.
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How did that appointment go for you, which you had to go to by yourself, because me and my mom were actually at the Windsor Fair on Friday when this whole thing took place?
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What was that like for you on Friday?
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Yeah, so overall my appointments have been fairly well when it comes to like being with the doctors, like those have been great.
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I have a wonderful team.
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And so I went into this appointment with a goal in mind, and the goal was to be cleared to go to the Windsor Fair.
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And so when the doctor walked in, I said, you know, I'm supposed to leave in a few hours.
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Like I need you to cut me straight.
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I need you to tell me, like, am I cleared to be an hour and a half away from the hospital Because I'm supposed to leave today and I'll be back on, uh, tuesday.
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And he laughed at me and said oh, your husband uh lives the carny life yeah, basically I said, yeah, I guess he could say that um, sometimes.
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So, uh, he does a cervix check and says absolutely not, that's not happening.
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And I said come on, like, is it really that bad?
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Like, where do we stand?
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Like, how many centimeters am I?
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He's like let me look at your record and on the week before I was two centimeters dilated and 80 percent um effaced.
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So it just means that you're pretty thinned out at that point, um, and labor could really go at any any time.
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Um, some people have gone at uh, started to dilate quickly at two centimeters and some people have hung on.
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We've heard stories, multiple stories.
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We had so many stories from everybody, especially like I'm sure you get it from work and everybody that you talk to, but me being at the fair.
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When everybody comes in and asks where you are or if they know that we're getting close, they start asking those questions.
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They all have their own story and their own experience.
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Close, they start asking those questions.
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They all have their own story and their own experience.
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So I can just tell you, when the hundred or so people or whatever it is that comes in throughout the day and then they ask questions about you, I get the varying stories of oh, when that happened to me, I had a baby within 14 hours.
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When that happened to me, I walked around for three weeks like that.
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So, you ride the wave of I'm going to be fine here, things are cool.
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Oh my God, I shouldn't be here.
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I'm just telling you from everybody's interpretation of your visit when I give my recollection of the story, that's what they say Like oh, you're going to be fine.
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Oh my God, what are you doing here?
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It was very.
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There was no like middle ground there.
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Like, what are you doing here?
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Yeah, it was very.
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There was no like middle ground there.
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Like, yeah, you should be fine.
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And that's how it was in my office too.
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Like you know, I'm with these girls all the time and I originally told them that I was two centimeters and 80 effaced and I felt great, like I felt absolutely fine.
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Um, and they were like, oh my god, why are you still here?
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Like you should start your maternity leave.
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Like you, you got to go home, as we talked about in the last episode so, or a couple episodes ago.
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Um, and so I left that appointment like so, like beat up about it.
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Like I was like come on, like I just wanted to go to the fair, like I just wanted to go to the fair.
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I even asked the doctor.
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I was like can I just go for, like the day?
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Like can I, can I go for the day and then come back?
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And he was like you're really pushing it.
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Yeah.
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Like you're, you're really pushing it.
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Um, and so I was like, oh like, and I, I sat in my car and I was like I don't want to call.
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I didn't want to call because I was like I felt like such a disappointment, like I was like not that, you know, we were getting closer and stuff Like we just had a plan.
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Right.
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And if it wasn't for I mean we know that these things don't work out, but we've.
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It's one of those things where you pray on it, you believe on it and you try to manifest on it.
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That like.
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Hey, our due date's the 15th.
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Yeah, we're.
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You know the windsor fair is completion of the fair.
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It's two weeks before the date right, right, we're gonna be fine.
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So for, all of a sudden, these things to change around this time yeah regardless of the people that are listening that are saying like, oh well, that's how it goes.
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No well, we've been fixated on this for nine freaking months yeah, yeah, we've had a plan.
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We've had, you know, like, this is what we've manifested, this is what we've done.
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And, um, you know, we were prepared for that plan, that's what we were riding out.
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So it was hard for me to to call um and I, you know, I said, said to you like, unfortunately I can't come to the fair, yeah, um, dr maxwell does not clear me.
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Um, he said it's not safe for me to be away.
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Um, at least it's not safe for me to be an hour and a half away, unless I want to deliver somewhere else.
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Um, because, I mean, he's not wrong for the simple fact that I was already four centimeters dilated at this point, and still 80%.
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But he knew what I was going to do.
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He knew I was going to go there and he knew I was going to walk around and he knew that I wasn't going to be easy on myself.
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Like he knows, we have a farm, and so he knows that you're on the road already and that I'm still doing barn chores and doing all the things that I'm not supposed to be doing.
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Because, well, guess what?
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We still have a life to live and this farm and house still needs to run.
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So here I am staying strong and trucking along.
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And so I called you and I said yeah, no, it's not going to happen.
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Thankfully we had put some thought into this whole situation right.
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We had an audible setup that we can.
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We can zig and zag here.
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We didn't want to use it, but we enacted that that plan and some of those moving parts on.
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That was a blessing that Steve Violette called before the fair and said hey man, I want to go on vacation.
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I live 10 minutes from the fair.
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If you need me, I'll be there.
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So we knew we had to call on Steve that he needed to be a backup scenario and you had already made a game plan with your dad.
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So we kind of had some things set up there.
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Exactly, yep, so that was Friday.
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And was it Friday?
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Yeah, that was Friday, you actually your backup plan was like hey, I think that on Monday, on Labor Day, I might come up just to say hi to everybody, yep, and then me and my dad will take the truck and the camper home.
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Right, and you were just, we're going to ride home with your dad.
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Yeah, that's like that was a game plan Kind of where we had left things, yep, and it was one of those touch and go scenarios and you started to get winded doing simple things and I really started to panic.
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And I was panicking last week.
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Whenever my phone would go off like if it was a phone call, I would just freak out and try to get to it and it was extremely stressful on my end because you're feeling guilty about not being there, but you also know that, like your family's dependent on you being right where you are, absolutely.
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And, as I talked about last week, the PTSD for me and how things went with my dad and him being sick and me having to stay at the Freiburg Fair when my dad was in the hospital and we didn't know how things were going to go I still struggle with my decision on that.
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So I was reliving all of those moments this entire time.
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So that's kind of where my headspace was, all of those moments this entire time.
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So that's kind of where my headspace was and I was doing the best I can to calm myself off of that and pray multiple times a day to kind of calm myself.
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And after that appointment I was kind of in a panic mode and Jen Barnes had reached out.
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Godmother Jen, the lovely, amazing godparents for Paisley, lance and Jen.
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We could not have picked better godparents.
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Absolutely not Even in these situations.
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it just shows right, because they were there in our corner the whole time and just kind of talking us down and she was offering me all this great support.
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And yeah, it was just you guys were in my corner and Jen was really just calming the both of us down and trying to keep us.
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Sane.
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Yeah, yeah and just say hey, man, if you manifest this, we can get through this.
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Yeah, yeah, For the simple fact that we're both an hour and a half away.
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I'm nine months pregnant.
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You're up at the fair trying to make ends meet and we just have to take it day by day.
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I've got lists a mile long of projects I got to prepare for Miss Paisley, like you know, organizing clothes and sterilizing bottles, and I'm just trying to keep my mind right while you're up at the fair and doing what you have to do.
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And you know, organizing clothes and sterilizing bottles, and I'm just trying to keep my mind right while you're up at the fair and doing what you have to do.
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And you know, um, I'm picking up shifts at the hospital.
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I worked two extra shifts, Um a couple of extra shifts.
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You were doing all kinds of projects.
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You finished the nursery as a project for my mom or like a surprise for my mom you were.
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I mean you were sending me all kinds of baby photos, man sterilizing bottles and all this crazy stuff, yeah, and we were putting together a great week at the fair, me and my mom.
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Every night we would, you know, obviously we would follow up with you throughout the day, but then at the end of the night we would kind of recap because I had a goal in my mind that we were going for and every day we were up, we were crushing it at the fair and I would say we didn't get all the way to where we wanted to get, but we beat last year.
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I just want to wrap the fair portion of this whole thing up.
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We beat last year pretty well.
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We didn't get to the goal that I had set for myself, but we only had like two days all week in the course of the entire fair that we weren't up over last year.
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So a tremendous success that was pulled off at the fair and it wasn't just my doing, it wasn't just my mom's doing.
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It had a major role and it was steve, steve, violet and amanda, moody and ashley.
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They did so much for us to get us through and Kyle and Julie are being behind us helping out Ledgeway Farm being there and just everybody at Windsor embracing us and checking on us and being there to help and knowing that they were going to be there and be understanding when I had to take off.
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But I don't.
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That's not the bulk of where we're headed today, but I just wanted to put that out there in the universe in case we get too excited about how things went.
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And I don't mention that Windsor was an absolute success and it was only a success because of all the people out there that were pulling for us and that were helping us.
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Yeah, we have a great support group.
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It's unbelievable, really, the fact of who we have in our corner and how much they're willing to help.
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Absolutely, I agree.
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At the fair to to be on high alert.
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I avoided drinking beers, I avoided any of the nightlife all the people that I know.
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I was staying clear.
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I was going back to camp being my mom, and we were just on on high alert.
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Anytime the phone would go off at night or something like I would just be jumping out of bed and it didn't matter, because those are the times when you get like we're starting to get political text messages too right.
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Yeah.
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You finally had said to me like listen, dude, I'm not going to tell you in a text message.
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No, no, because I knew we had bad service in general, because I had said something to you about like a friend or whatever, and I was like, oh my God, did you hear?
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And you're like what, what is happening?
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And you just like I got all of your text messages like all all at once and I was like bro, like if I'm going, if something's happening, like you're gonna know it but although you did like text me at 6 30, you didn't like because I was trying to evaluate the situation which will be into it we'll get.
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We'll get to that, but it was also 6 30 in the morning yeah, leading into where you're about to go, there was a couple things that put me on high alert about sunday.
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One of them is the coffee shop that we've been going to, um all week christy that owns the coffee shop.
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Um, when, as soon as I saw her, she was talking about you, asking about you where you were, how you were doing, how you were doing, and she was like you're going to have that baby at this fair and I was like no, I'm not.
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She's like you're going to have that baby this weekend and we have a long stretch of time there at the fair.
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We go there.
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We open up on Saturday and then we don't leave until the following Monday.
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So going into that weekend Friday was your appointment.
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When I went to get my coffee Friday morning, after I got off the phone with you, she said how did your appointment, how did the appointment go?
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with your wife and I told her yeah.
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And she said you're having that baby this weekend.
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And I said I'm never buying a coffee from you again.
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This is it.
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And I said so what's the deal here?
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Am I going to?
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Am I going to?
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You know you had said that the doctor said you weren't going to go today and I was like well, the doctor said I shouldn't be worried about today.
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And she's like I'm telling you you shouldn't either, and you won't be worried about tomorrow either.
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Saturday's going to be fine, but you're going to get a phone call Sunday morning.
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You're having that baby.
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So she put that into the ether, into my mind.
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And to go back to the godparents text messages that we have, there was something that put me on alert, that I don't know anybody else in the room or the womb picked up on except for me.
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On Saturday night I was laying in bed at camp.
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You were at home in bed and we were having a conversation with Lance and Jen and we were just kind of like talking through some emotions for all of us.